Blind Love
Wednesday, February 23, 2005
They say love makes people go over the head...
They say love makes people blind...
They say too much freedom let the person become lenient...
I do wonder why my sister is so blind about this thing call "LOVE" that never ever make a decision wisely. She is so big enough and that I can't possibly interfere too much with her stuffs. I think it's also high time that she learns what is called responsibility and that no aids shall be rendered this time.
Cruel it seems, nope I personally hate to administer this discipline role, but unwillingly I have to play the role of the devil.
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Moving on, Risk...
Monday, February 21, 2005
I need to move on... I need to have better sense of what this organisation is doing and have good recognisition projects to do...Sometimes I thought to myself if i were to do a rash decision and move on, would it be a good decision? It's a courageous one alrite, but the advantage there is good enuff and clear cut short-term notice. Of course this is a gamble what if the gamble is on the losing end of the table and goes on for a long period? Am I willing to take this risky gamble? RISK factor as much as possible most ppl would want to minimize it, but how much minimal can it go?
Perhaps it's the time in my life that I should go on make a soul-searching, and take up the courage to gamble with risk? No risk, no changes and fun.
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思不对心
Wednesday, February 16, 2005
是否有过这样的烦恼。
心里百般的不愿意去做，但精神上， 脑力里面却鼓励你去尝试。
当心里感觉的跟脑里想的产生对比，我想这是所谓的困扰。
有成语如“口不对心”，“力不从心”，相比之下是否有“心念不从”，或“思不对心”？
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A Reason, Season, or Lifetime?
Saturday, February 12, 2005
A friend forwarded the below article about friendship that is worth pondering about...
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Are Your Friends Here for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?
Anonymous
Many of us are fortunate enough to have friends who are a consistent
part of our lives throughout all our ups and downs. However, sometimes
others we consider friends appear to enter, then depart from our lives
for reasons we try to, but don't always, understand. This piece nicely
explains the flow of people in and out of our lives.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend,
and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then,
without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this
person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up
and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need
has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you
sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace,
or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is
real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and
Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is
to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
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Eve of the Chinese New Year!
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
traditionally for the Chinese it is a get-together for family and relatives. After all, the center of Asian values is on family closeness. As with the modern society, I feel that having a close and supportive family is very essential. It brings together the members closer and they be more approachable to help out in times of need. Of course not that cultivating such idea to bring about tangible benefits. There's the important reason of rekindling relationship that might be lost over the years. When grown older and each have started their own family, there's the more reason to maintain the tie closer together.
Like the Western New Year, the Chinese New Year also brings about an end to the past year and a start to a new one. One would try to clear all his debts in the past years or throw away old stuffs and set up resolutions for the coming year. As the Chinese have associated an animal to a 12-year cycle horoscope, this coming new year one is the year of the rooster. Hopefully, may the coming year be like the confident rooster, taking stride and confidence with each step it makes.
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Flare
Wednesday, February 02, 2005
It is just myself or that this few years of working life makes me feel that my temper has been flaring out easily? I know myself that I am not a good-tempered person and as such these past few years I been holding down here and there. Of coz when I mean to flare out it doesn't really mean that I start to go into the evil mood and bites the head off everybody. It's just the stern black look and the tone. And I know that it scares people away or that they don't feel comfortable to approach you. But what I can say is that I'm reasonable and that that moment of flare shall only be reserved for that moment, there won't be any carry-over stage.
Looking on the bright side, emptying a bit out would leave allowance for the next bit of tolerance and hopefully it can store much more again.
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Sunken Sad Feeling
This morning, I woke up with a sunken sad feeling. It feels like I going to break down and cry. Deep in my heart I know that these tears would be reserved for my missing of the loved ones - my grandma. Last nite I have a dream and the dream was surrounded about my grandma passing away. Perphaps this is how it feels, to cry for somebody that is close to you in heart! I can still remember during the funeral how I fought to resist the tears from rolling down my cheeks. But it was futile, and I was fighting a losing battle. That day I know what it is to be sad and what is crying for!
Few years have passed since, and from a show that I watched, it brings me deep impression how it brings out the meaning of crying. Crying has two forms; 1) To cry so that you bring about self-empathy to yourself, can't help feeling that you are weak and brittle, and so that you can gain the pitiness of others to help. 2) To cry out your heart away as you truly feels sad about the lost of something or somebody. In differentiating the two, the first case would be of a child that cries out loud so that he can obtain the toy that he wants, whereas the second case was an experience sadness due to a lost of event/things/person.
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